What if the girl I am dating has a car and I don’t???

Posted by Dennis on January 19, 2013 | 2 Comments »

Posted in: Dating and Courtship, Relationships

I like a girl who has a car, pero ako wala (but I don’t own one). Paano siya i-ask on a date or how do I go about it? Awkward naman diba kung she will drive for me? Hindi naman ok manghiram ng car just to show-off..

Okay honestly CARS makes it convenient to go out on a date especially if you live in a tropic country like the Philippines but to get intimidated because the girl has car and you don’t shouldn’t be an issue. Perspective lang yan…. You do have a car and you can have a different driver all the time. It is what we call a taxi. But if you also have a problem with paying the taxi driver that is a different matter altogether.

I think there is also no issue with borrowing the car just tell the girl upfront that you did borrow the car. And one more thing, if the girl is okay with public transportation – then all the more better!!!

Now just in case, the girl you are dating drives you around and both of you decided to take the relationship to the next level, meaning you are committing to courtship – then make it a goal to have your own car. Save up, work on it. Buy a 2nd hand car.

Kung gusto may paraan, kung ayaw maraming dahilan.

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Dennis Sy is the editor in chief of Act Like a Man and the Senior Pastor of Victory Greenhills. Husband to Thammie Sy, and father to two beautiful girls. You can follow his tweets @DennisSy or follow him in Facebook. Dennis is also the author of the best selling book, " Rich for Life: Secrets of Those Who Stayed Rich for Life and How You Can be One


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2 Comments on “What if the girl I am dating has a car and I don’t???”

  1. 1 Danny van Ommen said at 1:23 pm on January 19th, 2013:

    when we were dating, Acel had the car and I didn’t!

    Her car was like the barkada school bus. Eventually what we’d do was, I’d drive her home then take the jeepney home. All the way from Farview. Quite an adventure.

    Ofcourse, I did have to learn how to drive first. I had a fantastic teacher.

  2. 2 Angel said at 5:34 pm on January 22nd, 2013:

    Hey, from a girl’s perspective, a car is a car. it doesn’t really mean anything to us other than a vehicle that transports people. It doesn’t make us feel more in control or affects us the same way it affects men. Do flowers, and babies move you the same way women love them? Don’t worry about impressing women that you own a car, women are actually more impressed if you are confident with whatever you have or don’t have.

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