The Scene in Les Miserables that Made me Cry

Posted by Dennis on February 02, 2013 | 5 Comments »

Posted in: Dating and Courtship, Fatherhood, Marriage, Relationships

Lately I have been crying – very unlike me – maybe because I am getting older or there are things in life that makes you see how weak you are. This week Thammie and I watched Les Miserable. It was a wonderful movie. Our friends kept on saying how nice it was so I tried it out. I thought I will be sleeping in some parts of the movie since it was a musical but I didn’t.

But there was one scene that moved me to tears. It might not be the scene you would expect – but it was when Jean Valjean played by Hugh Jackman gave his daughter Cosette to Marius and said/sang a line to the effect of ” She is not mine to keep.”

I never fail to tear up every time I see a scene of a loving father giving away his daughter in marriage. I know years from now I will be doing the same thing. Alyanna turned 7 yesterday and it was like yesterday I was just changing her diapers and rocking her to sleep. I know it will be a tough time for me to give my precious daughter away sometime in the future. Thus I pray that Alyanna and Mika would meet a wonderful man who would love them like how Jesus and daddy loves them.

To all the men reading this, remember every time you ask a girl in marriage, you are taking that woman away from a father who dearly loved them. I know that daddy cannot stop their daughters in choosing her man but I plead with you men to be loving, responsible, gentle and kind hearted to all the girls out there.

I have personally loved my daughter and gave her all I’ve got. (shucks naiyak na naman ako). I have protected her to the best that I can. I have raised her up in the ways of the Lord by God’s grace – take care of the girl whom you will choose to love.

PS: and if ever you are just going to play around with any girl’s heart, remember behind every girl is a father willing to punch you in the face and put the smack down on you.

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Dennis Sy is the editor in chief of Act Like a Man and the Senior Pastor of Victory Greenhills. Husband to Thammie Sy, and father to two beautiful girls. You can follow his tweets @DennisSy or follow him in Facebook. Dennis is also the author of the best selling book, " Rich for Life: Secrets of Those Who Stayed Rich for Life and How You Can be One


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5 Comments on “The Scene in Les Miserables that Made me Cry”

  1. 1 Ram Alicarte said at 12:02 pm on February 3rd, 2013:

    I love that scene too Pastor, for I remember my stepdad with that, and I know he’ll say the same words someday. I really don’t know how to thank God for earth fathers like you and my stepdad. :)

  2. 2 Ressa Regalado said at 1:29 am on February 4th, 2013:

    Very blessed by your writings. I am just reminded that if a good earthly father like you could love, raise, protect, and tear up for your daughters, how much my heavenly Father for me. Thank you po! :) I really pray that the husbands of your daughters will be able to read this and your other writings that include them, before they even think of approaching them.

  3. 3 Karen Santos said at 10:17 am on February 12th, 2013:

    And this made me cry.

  4. 4 shayne de guzman said at 10:19 pm on February 12th, 2013:

    I thank God for giving me a loving father..

  5. 5 shayne de guzman said at 10:23 pm on February 12th, 2013:

    I thank God for giving me a loving father.. ;)

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